you are a prisoner of your own fears

"Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a..."

Mon, 20 May 2013 23:02:01 -0400

“Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither. This season is about becoming. Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the corporate ladder either. Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal. Now is your time. Walk closely with people you love. Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned. Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep travelling honestly along life’s path.”

- Street Smarts: A Learning Process: 11 Things to Know at 25(ish)

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bbblackeyennnosebleeds: Meant the world to me when that certain...

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bbblackeyennnosebleeds:

Meant the world to me when that certain person said this to me last night

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"As you walk look around, assess where you are, reflect on where you have been, and dream of where..."

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“As you walk look around, assess where you are, reflect on where you have been, and dream of where you are going. Every moment of the present contains the seeds of opportunity for change. Your life is an adventure. Live it fully.”

- John Francis, PhD. (via cosmic-rebirth)

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Neurolove.me: The 10 Commandments for a Good Life

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Neurolove.me: The 10 Commandments for a Good Life:

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. I accept that I’m not perfect, and there’s no perfect time – Too many people are hanging around and waiting for the perfect opportunity – or the time when they are perfect and have all the skills they need. But life rewards effort; so get out there and work…

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"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."

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“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

- Oscar Wilde (via aquaticwonder)

"Most of the pain you’re dealing with are really just thoughts.. ever think of that?"

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“Most of the pain you’re dealing with are really just thoughts.. ever think of that?”

- Buddhist Bootcamp (via perfect)

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Psych-Quotes: Top 70 Traits of People with Personality Disorders

Sun, 12 May 2013 14:07:16 -0400

Psych-Quotes: Top 70 Traits of People with Personality Disorders:

psych-facts:

onlinecounsellingcollege:

The list below contains descriptions of some of the more common traits of people who suffer from personality disorders, as observed by family members and partners. Please note that these descriptions are not intended for diagnosis. No one person exhibits all of the traits and the presence of one or more traits is not evidence of a personality disorder.

1. Abusive Cycle - This describes the characteristic rotation between destructive and constructive behavior that typically exists in dysfunctional relationships.

2. Alienation- Interfering or cutting a person off from relationships with others. This can be done by manipulating the attitudes and behaviors of the victim or of the people with whom they come in contact. The victim’s relationships with others may be sabotaged through verbal pressure, threats, diversions, distortion campaigns and systems of rewards and punishments.

3. “Always” & “Never” Statements - These are but rarely true.

4. Unresolved anger – The belief that they have been wronged, invalidated, neglected or abused.

5. Avoidance - The practice of withdrawing from relationships with other people as a defensive measure to reduce the risk of rejection, accountability, criticism or exposure.

6. Baiting and Picking Fights - The practice of generating a provocative action or statement to obtain an angry, aggressive or emotional response from another person.

7. Belittling, condescending & patronizing speech - Giving someone a verbal put-down while maintaining a facade of reasonableness or friendliness.

8. Blaming - The practice of identifying a person or people responsible for creating a problem, rather than identifying ways of dealing with the problem.

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